Nobody goes through life without being touched by dying and death at some stage. And yet, for something that is so common , and so inescapable, we typically do not have the tools to deal with it very well. We don't even speak of it until we are faced with dealing with the passing of a loved one or our own imminent departure. We should all be considered as experts in our needs and preferences, just as we live well we should also be able to die well. The significant memories of our death, which, we leave behind can be a comfort to our loved ones, when the end of life journey is calm, organised and tranquil it can be of immense comfort to those left to grieve.

To die well you need to be:

• treated as an individual with dignity and respect
• without pain and other symptoms
• in familiar surroundings
• in the company of close family, friends or carers.

More and more people are making the choice to die at home Families Care can help........

As well as all aspects of personal care, nutrition, hydration and assistance with medication, our therapist can offer massage, very useful in relieving pain, aiding relaxation and providing comfort to the dying person.

Death and dying bring to the fore so many emotions. It is incredibly important that there is someone who can help the dying and their family to see their way through the most difficult of these emotions. To be respectful and tolerant of all the feelings that may arise, and to facilitate difficult conversations in a respectful and non judgmental way.

Family members are the primary communicators with healthcare and other professionals, in particular regarding decisions being made about the end of life care that is being provided. They are responsible for fulfilling their loved ones final wishes in relation to medical assistance and end of life care. But at times, some family members can find this responsibility overwhelming or even time consuming if their loved one is reaching the very end of their life journey. If required, with consent, our therapist can act as a communication go-between, or even as a gentle guide when it has become apparent that a loved one needs more medical or other professional support. Our therapist will always make sure that any communication between, family, professionals and others is steered by the express wishes of the dying person, or, in those cases where these are not known, in their best interests.

Our therapist will, if possible, have spent time with you to discuss any wishes and instructions you have once your end of life journey begins.

One of the most comforting therapies is the creation of a legacy, our therapist can help you to create a lasting legacy to leave for loved ones, this can be very cathartic for you and those you who receive it.

If you would like to have a talk and get more information

please telephone 01538 398401